1. ARE YOU OVER 18?
Going to in a few months time...
2. WHAT IS THE WALLPAPER ON YOUR CELLPHONE?
one is sparky at 2 yrs, one is sparky at 6 mths...
3. DID YOU GET ENOUGH SLEEP LAST NIGHT?
Nope, was at chalet, taunt...
4. FIRST THING YOU THOUGHT ABOUT THIS MORNING WHEN YOU WOKE UP?
I didn't sleep so how to wake up... No wake up how to think???
5. WHAT DO YOU HAVE ON YOUR BED?
4 pillows, 1 bolster and a big big blanket...
6. EVER TRIED TO SKIP MEAL?
Very often...
7. GRILLED OR FRIED?
Both...
8. WHAT MAKES YOU UNIQUE ?
I am already unique in so many ways, no need anything to make me unique...
9. ARE YOU AFRAID OF THE DARK?
No... Straight and direct...
10. FAVORITE PERSON TO TALK TO?
Zhu Jie, Jo, Darling
11. THINGS YOU CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT?
HP, Money, Darling, Frenz, Family
12. FIRST THING YOU WILL BUY IF GIVEN 1 THOUSAND DOLLARS?
A lot of things, but seriously dunno what i would buy first...
13. FAVORITE SONG WHEN YOU'RE SLEEPY?
None, i listen to anything...
14. WHAT ARE YOU AFRAID OF?
dumb surveys like these...
15. ARE YOU A GIVER OR TAKER?
i'm mostly a giver, but i wanna be a taker for a change...
16. WHAT ARE YOUR NICKNAMES?
Moo Moo
17. WHAT IS YOUR DAD'S MIDDLE NAME?
Most chinese people got no middle name...
18. MOST RECENT MOVIE THAT YOU WATCHED? AND WITH WHO?
None, the pervious movie i watched is War of the World with darling...
19. IF YOU WERE INVISIBLE FOR A DAY, WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
go and visit darling...
20. IF YOU ARE STUCK ON A DESERTED ISLAND AND COULD HAVE ONLY ONE KIND OF FOOD FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE, WHAT WOULD IT BE?
FOOD, DUH!!!
21. FAVORITE T.V. COMMERCIAL?
None...
22. IF YOU'LL DIE TOMORROW, WHAT WILL YOU DO?
Tell her i still love her...
23. FIRST THING YOU'LL SAVE IN A FIRE?
Dunno, got fire then see what i save first la, probably myself lor, duh...
24. YOUR EYE COLOR?
Brown...
25. WHAT ARE THE THINGS YOU ALWAYS BRING OUT?
Wallet, HP, Mp3 Player, Keys... As simple as that...
26. WHAT DID YOU WANNA BE WHEN YOU WERE A KID?
Pilot...
27. WHAT DO YOU USUALLY DO WHEN THE CLOCK TURNS 7 AM?
Sleep or wake up...
28. THE COLOR OF YOUR BEDSHEET?
blue...
29. WHO DO U WANT TO MEET?
for what purpose, dumb question...
30. HOW'S LIFE TODAY?
tired, i just came back from chalet, how many times have i gotta specify that???
got this from an e mail, pls read, esp if u are a girl...
Through a Rapist's Eyes (No Joke)
This is important information for females of ALL ages. Guys - please
forward to the female members of your family and all your female friends
and associates.
When this was sent to me, I was told to forward it to my lady friends. I
forwarded it to most everyone in my address book. My men friends have
female friends and this information is too important to miss someone.
Please pass it along.
A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what
they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:
1) The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They
are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun, braid or other
hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go aftera
woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.
2) The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women
who's clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors
around specifically to cut clothing.
3) They also look forwomen on their cell phone, searching through their
purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard
and can be easily overpowered.
4) Men are most likely to attack & rape in the early morning, between
5:00 a.m.and 8:30 a.m.
5) The number one place women are abducted from/attacked is grocery store
parking lots. Number two is office parking lots/garages. Number three
is public restrooms.
6) The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and
quickly move her to another location where they don't have to worry
about getting caught.
7) Only 2% said they carried weapons because rape carries a 3-5 year
sentence but rape with a weapon is 15-20 years.
8) If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because
it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you
isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming
9) These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas, or
other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.
Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the
attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys
you're not worth it.
10) Several defense mechanisms he taught us are: If someone is following
behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or
stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time
is it, or make general small talk: "I can't believe it is so cold out
here", "we're in for a bad winter." Now you've seen their face and could
identify them in a line-up; you lose appeal as a target.
11) If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you
and yell STOP or STAY BACK ! Most of the rapists this man talked to said
they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be
afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.
12) If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it
and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yell I HAVE PEPPER Spray and
holding it out will be a deterrent.
13) If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with strength but you can
by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind,
pinch the attacker either under the arm (between the elbow and armpit)
OR in the upper inner thigh VERY VERYHARD. One woman in a class this
guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying
to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out
muscle strands - the guy needed stitches.
Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it
hurts.
14) After the initial hit, always GO for the GROIN. I know from a
particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy's parts it is
extremely painful. You might think that you'll anger the guy and make him
want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is
that they want a woman who will not cause a lot of trouble. Start causing
trouble, and he's out of there.
15) When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and
bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on
them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much
pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.
16) Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of
your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any
odd behavior,don't dismiss it, go with your instincts!!!
You may feel a little silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the
guy really was trouble
Darling, i miss u
have i told u lately that i still love u